Last night... home alone... nothing to do (couldn't play Sims because I left my notebook in Hamburg...one of my neurotic things... better left unexplained!).... I think "I'll get caught up on my shows from last week"... realize that something is wrong with my receiver and the usual shows that I record on Wednesdays (Criminal Minds and CSI: NY) aren't going to record... call directv (what fun)... eventually get it fixed, and while I'm checking to make sure all will be recording nicely, I see the commercial for Black. White. on FX... now... I also discover another show that I really like, but haven't been recording for some strange reason (Bones on Fox)...so... after all the discovering I have FIVE different shows recording just last night. I did record and watch American Idol (I know... I've completely sold out!), but I refuse to watch tonight (
Ginger will update me with who got eliminated, but it makes me feel slightly less like a reality TV junky!)... that said... I watched Black. White. (another reality show) This show takes two families (one white, one black) and put enough make-up on them to completely change their race, and then they live together(in their natural color), take outings together, and generally discuss the differences in the ways they are treated because of their skin color. I had hoped that this one would be different from the rest, and for a while it was. I thought that maybe the families would approach this thing the same way I would... you know, using it as an opportunity to find out as much as you can about another culture without having to get past a racial barrier to have your questions answered. Well.. I think that only the 17 year old girl, Rose, had any kind of good intentions. The white family has Rose, the 17 year old, and the black family has Nick, a 16 year old boy. Rose's parents, Bruno and something (I can't remember her name), are probably the dumbest two people I have ever seen on television. He (Bruno) thinks that when he is "black" that people (white people) will just walk up to him and be blatently racist (ie. calling him the "n" word, and other racial slurs)... he can't seem the grasp the fact that there are a lot more subtle ways that racism occurs in our time. While I do still know that those confrontational people exist, I also know that there aren't very many of them around anymore. Bruno thinks (and I think he truly believes this) that if a person (white or black) comes up to another person (black or white) and treats them with "kindness and respect" (his words) and doesn't come in "with a chip on their shoulder" then they will be treated equally. So the underlying tone of his speech is that black people are discriminated against because of their attitude towards other people, and not because of their skin color. Completely bizarre! Now... Nick's parents (can't remember their names either) are almost as bad. I'm not sure what his mother is wanting to get out of this experience... I can't decide if the others talked her into doing this, or if she is trying to prove that she will be treated differently as a white person, but you can definitely sense some hostility from her when she is "white"... she seems VERY uncomfortable. Nick's father, on the other hand, is actively trying to find racial situations to put himself in while he is "white", and doing a pretty good job of it too. He got a job while he was "white" in a bar in a predominantly white neighborhood because he said that when people get drunk, they will relax and talk more. On the first night he found a man who was willing to share with him all the reasons why living in the community was wonderful... one of those being that the neighborhood was all white and "untouched" (he didn't have to add who those people were who weren't touching that neighborhood).. he went on to explain that the people in the community liked it that way because they felt safe and their school were really good. He said "they have seen the other communities drop because of immigration" (and he wasn't talking about illegal aliens). Overall, the show could have been, and probably still could be a wonderful look into the lives of other cultures as an insider from the outside. I'm just worried about the attitudes and motives of the people doing the actual experiment. I think that the producers thought that maybe if they did the show the way it should have been done, with people wanting to have the experience, then maybe they thought people wouldn't watch it as much, so they picked people who they thought would create sparks with each other and cause good arguments that they could show for ratings. I would LOVE to be on the show... pick me next time!!!
Okay.. here's the plug... I think it will be on Wednesday nights from now on, and I know it will be on FX... so watch it... I wanna talk about it with someone who watched the show!!
*Side note: I think Chris should win American Idol... yeah for bald men!!